I've been experimenting with indirect technique lately (separate on waking etc) and I've observed two kinds of waking:
1) I'm in a dream, feel the dream fading and realise I'm in bed.
2) I realise I'm in bed and I've just woken (and sometimes remember a dream).
Is one of these types of waking preferable over the other when trying to separate? Any research been done on that?
Types of waking and indirect technique
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Re: Types of waking and indirect technique
Read the SOBT Michael tells you exactly.
Both times you can attempt to separate, you just have to be determined enough and aware enough in the moment and realise you are still in the phase.
Try telling yourself before you sleep....
"Don't move, don't move, separate, separate". Over and over. This could probably be the first thing on your mind when you wake.
If you don't separate for some reason, then go on to the indirect techniques.
Both times you can attempt to separate, you just have to be determined enough and aware enough in the moment and realise you are still in the phase.
Try telling yourself before you sleep....
"Don't move, don't move, separate, separate". Over and over. This could probably be the first thing on your mind when you wake.
If you don't separate for some reason, then go on to the indirect techniques.
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Re: Types of waking and indirect technique
Are you sure that's in SOBT3? I don't recall it. I just reviewed it (because using indirect techs has become an option again).Read the SOBT Michael tells you exactly.
No, I never use affirmations with negatives. I've read elsewhere that affirmations should always be positively worded. SLaB recommends "Play dead".Try telling yourself before you sleep....
"Don't move, don't move, separate, separate".
Terminology confusion here. The whole approach - the separation attempt on waking and the cyles - comes under the banner "indirect technique" does it not? And the exercises following separation "failure" are known as "cycling techniques" are they not?If you don't separate for some reason, then go on to the indirect techniques.